Advice On: Boys
posted on 10/24/2009
Boys can be difficult to read, the whole time that you think that they are thinking about you, they are really thinking about her! It is important to remember that a boy "friend" will ever only be a "friend", yes you may have sex and you may make out but he will always only think of you as a friend. Why? Boys are more likely to be attracted to others and call their less attractive girl "friends" just that, a friend. So, is it possible for them to fall in love with you? Yes, it is possible for them to actually fall in love with you, but he may still think of you as just his friend.
Now, I am not saying that a great love can't grow from a friendship, it definitely can. People who grow to love each other can be in an incredibly successful relationship. What is the key, you ask? It all comes down to that ugly little, well big word…communication! It is essential that you maintain your communicational skills with you boy "friends". Communication will allow each of you to represent your true feelings and become extremely knowledgeable of each other's feelings, wants, desires, and dislikes. Communication is not only an essential key for maintaining a friendship but it is also an indispensable part of maintaining a long lasting, loving relationship.
So whether this boy is just a friend or the love of your life, talking about these feelings with him will make him aware of how you feel and may make the relationship grow. Dealing with these feelings at a young age may also be hard, as you may fear rejection. In these situations, you have to remain confident in yourself and your feelings. Ultimately, you have to remember that boys will be, at best, boys.
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inumiko says:
(10d 6h 40min ago)
i agree , but the only thing i disagree is that not all boys are like that , yes i kow that most of them are. but if a guy says he loves you , you notice if he does. youll see the look of adoration that he has in his eyes when he looks at you , youll feel his feeling through the way that he holds you (and i dont mean by touching you sexualy) i know that some girls , might not notice these things , that some girls think that there guy is looking at another girl , (95% of guys in the world do that.) some girls think hes thinking of another girl ,maybe he is or maybe there just jealouse. but its noticeable when a guy is interested in you , most guys just get interested in girls cause of there bodys and looks. but not all are that way. lol boys will be boys. if only they came with a map or with a manual then all of our troubles would be solved , to bad the world doesnt work that way.