Advice On How To Control And Dominate Your Woman
posted on 05/05/2009
Women like to be controlled and dominated. Don't fool yourself into believing that they don't. They do. They want their man to take charge of them. They want their man to be their strong domineering leader. Secretly all women desire to submit to the will of their man.
1.FEMALES WANT A MAN TO COME ALONG AND MAKE THEM SUBMIT!
First off, I'm not promoting any man to beat any woman. You can dominate her without putting the "smack down" on her. If you think beating your woman is the way to go, well you might end up in jail and have a man put the "smack down" on you because you wouldn't submit to him. Fellas, this is not about that.
Now that we cleared that up lets get back to the advice. First thing is as a man you gotta lay it down sometimes. You gotta come strong.
For example, your girl and you come home from work. You're tired. You just want to relax. She starts nagging you about doing things you just really don't want to do. Normally you do it just to please her (or just to shut her up). But you're at the point where you just don't feel like jumping when she says jump.
This is what you say to her: "WOMAN! Last time I checked I was the one with the penis in this house. You better go in that kitchen and get my dinner on the table!"
At this point if she tries to talk back and argue. Just shake your head no and point to the kitchen. She'll get the message. By doing this you will subconsciously reinforce the fact that you are the dominate one in the household. You the man and your word is the only one that counts in the end.
2.STOP SPOILING HER ALL THE TIME!
Ain't nothing wrong with spoiling your girl. Do nice things for her. But there comes a point when she will take it for granted that you "have to" spoil her in order to keep her happy. That's when you gotta man up and "straiten her out."
For example, she wants an expensive new dress but she has a closet full of clothes and most of them she don't even wear or only wore once. You say something like this to her:
"Look, you ain't getting no new dress. Matter of fact you be lucky if I took you to the thrift store and bought you a dress for fifty cent. It's a recession. People out here losing their jobs and hungry and all you can think about is trying to look cute in some expensive dress. Stop being so materialistic. Grow up and act like a grown woman. You ain't no teenager no more. Them days have been long gone for you. So, NO. You're not getting a new dress. STOP ASKING!"
And if she tries to talk back or argue just nod your head no and this time point her out to the wash machine and dryer. Then tell her since she likes clothes so much she can do some laundry. This reinforces the fact that she can't have everything that she wants when she wants it. It also reinforces the fact that she better learn how to stay in her place sometimes as the "domesticated" half of your relationship. YEA, DON'T IT FEEL GOOD TO BE A MAN!
3. DOMINATE HER IN THE BEDROOM!
All I'm going to say is, if you can dominate her in the bedroom. You pretty much got the relationship under your control. Women love to be submissive in the bedroom. They want to snuggle up under a man who has thoroughly brought her to her knees. Don't listen to no chick whose telling you "How you perform in the bedroom doesn't matter."
You see wives try control their husbands through the use of their sexuality. But men, turn it on her. You pretty much know what she likes. You ain't got to think like no woman to figure that out. Actually, women are turned off by guys who think like that. They want a man to come in and grab them, and throw them down and smack her on the bottom. Women like that.
You turn your wife on to the point where she's totally helpless to your advances. Then you take her. Not just from the missionary position. But all positions. Make sure you do it good to her and do it for a long time. Make sure you have her perform oral sex on you. She's your wife and she should be willing to do that. It's part of her being submissive.You must wear her out. You should wear her out. Then when you're finished doing her, have her go make you a sandwich a few times.
The reason why you do this is prove that she has been thoroughly dominated and she will express this by submissively getting "her man a sandwich." Matter a fact she should be telling her girlfriends "My husband, did it so good to me, he had me up making sandwiches and kool-aide after we got done. And I could barely even walk, girl."
Well there's more advice I could give you but I'll stop here. Men, I know its hard sometimes for us to remember that we are the dominate ones but let us grip our masculinity and not forget that women must be kept under control.
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lionesse1973 says:
(280d 6h 54min ago)
I hope you were joking because that is the biggest load of crap I have ever read. I found it deeply offensive, and ridiculous. I hope that the men who read this article realize that they will never have a healthy dynamic in their own relationships if they follow your advice and dominate their partners. You can't have a healthy dynamic in a relationship if one partner is controlling the other.
DoTell says:
(279d 11h 23min ago)
Are you joking?
BoomGTD7 says:
(279d 11h 16min ago)
Finally! Someone who's not afraid to tell it like it is.
ASK_Miki says:
(278d 18h 39min ago)
You are smoking something seriously.LOL ! Every one wants a little give and take. You are completely one sided and really need to focus on getting yourself in control before you can control anyone else.That's the problem now everybody wants control you haven't taken the time to figure out its not about control. I don't want someone I can dominate and I don't want some one that would try to dominate me. We want someone we can work, build, and grow with. Grow up please!
PanteUp says:
(278d 7h 47min ago)
Wow!
DanielleHansel says:
(259d 12h 3min ago)
I really hope you are joking. Maybe you just want to wind some people up and see if they are paying attention to the new articles that are coming in. Men have tried to dominate me and guess what I did? I dumped them! Relationships should be equal. Decisions should be made together and there should be a mutual respect between both partners. Now if you are serious, lets pick this article apart, from a woman's perspective.
Yes, sometimes we get home from work and there are things that need to be done. Maybe you are too tired to jump on the chores that need completed. That is fine. We are all a little bit tired when we get home from work, so you should not expect "your woman" to do all the work. There needs to be room for negotiation. If she cooks the dinner, then what responsibility are you going to take? How about taking out the trash or mowing the lawn? You don't need to do it as soon as you walk through the door. Pick a time that you both agree on.
Spoiling goes both ways. Not all women are materialistic. If your woman is truly responsible, she will be able to treat herself with her own money that she makes. The same goes for a man. It is nice to surprise your significant other with a gift here and there but that goes both ways. Always make sure that the bills are paid and that you can afford to do this. If your girlfriend is acting like a spoiled brat, wanting things all the time and you can't afford them... dump her. She is obviously with you for your money.
Dominating in the bedroom also goes both ways. Take turns. Work out each other's fantasies. Trust me, women can be just as dominating in the bedroom as men and are equally as talented in doing so.
Lili Maison says:
(241d 10h 57min ago)
i hope you catch an std and ur privy falls off how can you say anything so grimy and dispicable its really an insult that you even have a rating and were posted on this site seriously its crude and ridiculous that you were even posted on here i swear if i was your wife i would pull a lorena bobbitt on ur ass
meghowe85 says:
(239d 2h 12min ago)
I'd like to see you try to dominate a woman. Ha! You'd probably scare her away with your language usage before she'd even think about submitting to you.
stevenmiller says:
(238d 7h 25min ago)
Boy you women are strange. YAW LOOK GOOD! Well at least some of you do. BUT YAW ARE STRANGE. I know that most women want men they can rule and dominate. But if a man has any sense in his head he's not going to allow it.
And by the way to all of my angry, dysfunctional, hater females, if you looking for a REAL MAN, THAT COULD MAKE YOU SUBMIT LIKE YA SUPPOSED TO. JUST LET ME KNOW. I'LL BE HAPPY TO MAKE YOU SUBMIT. TRUST ME YOU'LL BE ALL THE BETTER FOR IT.
xxxpeacexxxx says:
(237d 1h 0min ago)
wat the hell r u talking about, men like independant women and women like to be independant! wat u wrote there was bull. i dont want to marry a man who expects me to be a houswwive and stay at home and be a mom, cook and clean. and the line where u said: "WOMAN! Last time I checked I was the one with the penis in this house. You better go in that kitchen and get my dinner on the table!"
that was hilarious because most likely...u dont even hav a dick.
stevenmiller says:
(235d 7h 52min ago)
wow, you can tell when people are feeling GUILTY and CONDEMEND especially when you're pointing out what is REALLY WRONG WITH THEM!
XXXPEACEXXX I bet this disturbed female couldn't wait to write something negative like this. Look at her response. Seriously. She has convincted herself of being exactly the kind of woman that destroys homes and the lives of men and children everywhere. Let's give this "special kind of female" a round of applause. Come on she deserves it.
XXXPEACEXXX no hard feelings but you should just listen and stop with all that INDEPENDENT WOMAN stuff, it's has played out. It's a done deal. Move on. And I would never let a chick like you ever experience my "manpart" so there's no use of you trying to determine if I got one or not. You should be worried about having an attitude like yours.
Cause I guarantee you that if it doesn't change chances are you're going to spending your life all by yourself with your "own car, and your own house, and your own bank account; materailly set, but seriously screwed up in all other areas of your life."
Lili Maison says:
(230d 5h 27min ago)
amen xxxpeacexxxx i hope someone cuts off ur dick god knows i wouldnt touch the thing - if you had one
joejim101 says:
(205d 22h 23min ago)
Absolutely fucking brilliant! You had me in stitches, and that pic of the sandwich at the end, pure class. Best laugh all day, sick bar room humor.
Batosai says:
(166d 1h 36min ago)
SUPERB article Steve!! don't take comments from the females so seriously. They hate your article because if all men read it, they will have no men left to mess with, hahahahahaha!
zara_rockz says:
(156d 13h 30min ago)
r ya a runaway frm an asylum??? or ya gt beaten up frm ur female boss or ur wife dominates over ya...wat da hell is rong wid ya...y cn control sum1 by dominatin bt she will neva b ur wife n will neva gv ya luv or evn a small felin of luv...ya'll jus hv a robot n if ya gonna b happy wid it den tell ya ya will b da one alone fr ur whole lyf...no gal will or ever lyks to b dominated or to b told to wat to do n wat nt to do...y cnt get nethng by being da man of da house...xcept ofcourse gettin dumped n being beaten up...n um sure ya hv got beaten up by a female so ya cum up wid such an article...
stevenmiller says:
(147d 14h 21min ago)
IF ANYONE IS GOING TO COMMENT ON THIS ARTICLE, PLEASE READ THE ARTICLE AND UNDERSTAND WHAT I'M REALLY SAYING. PLEASE! MANY OF YOU ARE TO CAUGHT UP ON THE WHOLE "DOMINATING" THING. THIS ARTICLE IS REALLY ABOUT WOMEN DON'T NEED TO CONTROL RELATIONSHIPS. THAT'S IT. NOTHING ELSE. IT'S A TREND THAT IS CHANGING THE NATURE OF RELATIONSHIPS FOREVER AND MANY MEN ARE BEING RUN BY WOMEN BECAUSE THEY'RE BEING DUMB ENOUGH TO ALLOW FEMALES TO RULE OVER THEM. THIS IS NOT HOW THINGS SHOULD BE. AND EVERYBODY KNOWS IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Irondell21 says:
(143d 20h 11min ago)
I reckon all you girls need is a long hard spanking. And I'm just the boy to give it to you.
stevenmiller says:
(60d 23h 3min ago)
Close to over 5000 people have read this article. You know what that tells me that I must be saying something right. To all the haters and the "funny fools" who like to make "dumbass" comments well, I'll let the article do the talking. Anybody else sends so more off the wall comments I'm reporting you in the abuse section. I just don't want to hear what "losers" have to say. Especially female "losers" who don't know how to submit.
oliverG says:
(40d 17h 17min ago)
I don't agree with dominating but I do agree with leadership in a relationship. However, I recognize doing some of that and even more. I am all respectful for a woman as long as she respects me. However, many women literally ask for this behavior acting in a domineering and disrespectful way so it is a matter of choice: what do you want to be kicked or to kick? The problem is that nowadays radical feminism has made lots of women to behave even worse against men than what the article proposes. So for those men who did not want to be submissive to them this is what you'll get...and it is well deserved and sex is much better!
zillyone says:
(18d 4h 34min ago)
I am a woman and I agree with this article. I know that women want to be dominated not at but most. The one's who are secure in themselves. If I was acting like a brat I would expect to be straightened out and told to get my man a sandwich but what you readers don't understand is this writer doesn't mean all the time. It's balance. It's instead of having an arguement. I know I get emotional and bratty and if given the fuel (ie; him getting emotional and bratty) then we'll have some fire on our hands. But if instead he distinguishes my flame by putting his foot down then it's over and we both end up with a good night. Of course the times where I ask him to do something and it is important or he is able to then of course he would. A good man won't bully a woman but yes he will keep his head on straight and end an arguement or sassy attitude before we have a fit and end up screaming like a crazy woman... of course if we don't submit a spanking always works ;)